He
refers to himself as an arbularyo, but Boy Fajardo does not fit the stereotyped image
of one. He studied in an exclusive
school and went on to U.P. Diliman. “I
majored in BSBB,” he says, but quickly follows it with “major in billiards and
bowling” and a guffaw. Those were the
days when there was still a bowling alley and billiard hall in the campus. He then transferred to another school to take chemical engineering. That’s where he met his wife who was also a
student. She comes from a prominent
family in Lian, Batangas. They live in a
well-appointed two-storey house near the boundary of Cainta and Pasig. The house in Mt. Banahaw which Boy designed
and supervised in its construction stage provides the family spiritual and
physical retreat.
Boy was born in Pura, Tarlac, on December 2, 1944, the
youngest of four siblings. His maternal
grandfather was pure Chinese, a psychic and a kung fu expert, from whom he must
have inherited his interest.
Unfortunately, his grandfather had already passed away by the time Boy
was born.
Boy had Catholic education at Holy
Ghost and Don Bosco, in Tarlac, Tarlac.
For high school, he studied at San Beda College in Manila.
In the 1960s, Boy was already deep
into the study of religions, philosophy and the occult. In 1972, he ahd what the doctors diagnosed as
muscular dystrophy. It’s like a
short-circuit, he says. He was studying
several things at the same time – the occult, healing, astral travel, oracion,
among others. It is inevitable not to
encounter witches (mangkukulam) in the process.
Likewise, there were so many oracion that when one uses them, some may
not be complementary. “So what happens
is that there is short-circuiting in the neurological system.”
For one whole year, Boy was confined
to his room, unable to walk. An arbularyo friend treated him through
message (hilot) and herbs. That was the time when he went intensely into
healing. He cannot remember how many
healers he went to in order to learn different techniques. “Pag
may nabalitaan akong magaling, pipupuntahan ko,” he says, adding that he
has spent and is still spending time and money in his desire to learn more.
Boy prides himself as being
eclectic. His background in science and
his readings and observations enable him to analyze and explain the phenomenon
of healing. He emphasizes that healing
is only a by-product of spirituality.
“If you’re a healer, you should be
able to align the mind, body and emotions.”
He explains further: if only the physical is healed, but the emotions
are not, the ailment will keep on recurring.
Diseases are but manifestations that the three (body, mind and emotions)
are not in harmony. “kaya nga tinawag na dis-ease. Kasi hindi ka at ease.” For example, he elaborates, when there is a
problem with a relationship and emotions are suppressed, negative feelings are
nourished, and the inner conflicts result into a biological disorder. He emphasizes the wholistic approach to
healing. “Kaya kami, manggagamot ng tao, hindi ng sakit lang. This is where philosophy and spiritual
techniques come in.” Thus Boy believes that healing should be approached “three
dimensionally”. Healing should also be
philosophically grounded and should abide with the universal law of nature.
This is one of the reasons why Boy,
aside from practicing his profession as engineer, building, landscape and
interior contractor, is active in giving seminars on values transformation or kabuoan.
He is a fellow of the Philippine Institute of Alternative Futures which
organize cooperatives based on the modules of kabuoan. He guides people to realize and identify
essential values tht would help them transform into better individuals and
ultimately, better citizens. First, he
says, the person has to know and admit his limitations. “I guide them in processing. Only then can there be a transformation. You cannot build on something shaky”, he
explains. “Kaya kabuoan. Each person
should be a whole person. If he is sick,
he is not whole. If there are emotional
or psychological blockages, he is not whole.
This is healing in its wholistic sense.”
Physical healing may be classified
into biological, electrical and electromagnetical. Conventional medicine and herbs are
biological or chemical forms of healing.
But, he clarifies, many of western medicines are “confrontational”. He cites Pasteur’s germ theory and the use of
antibiotics. Herbs are indirect. “Basically,” he says, “these are diuretics
that clean the system to increase your resistance.”
Boy claims that by tradition or
practice, the arbularyo is (1) chiropractor, (2) reflexologist, (30
ocupressurist, (4) exorcist, (5) counselor, (6) birth assistant, (7) herbalist
and (8) oracion user. The first three,
he classifies under electrical healing; exorcism and use of oracion he
classifies as electromagnetic or metaphysical healing; assisting in birth, as
physical; counseling, as social/psychological and emotional; and herbal
medicine as biochemical.
Hilot,
acumassage, acupressure and acupuncture are examples of the electrical type of
healing. Pranic healing on the other
hand is an example of electromagnetic healing.
To him, the term pranic healing is misleading because “ it is not the
prana that is being manipulated, it’s the electromagnetic energy.” Prana means universal energy, life force, and
it cannot be manipulated, but electromagnetic energy can be realigned. When this energy is altered, automatically
the electric energy is altered.
Boy draws a parallelism between
pranic healing and the use of oracion.
The reciting of oracion affects the electromagnetic energy in the same
way as in pranic healing. These are but
two different ways of changing or altering that type of energy. The oracion, however, is double-bloded. “Puede
mong ipanggamot, puedeng ipangkulam.”
Boys uses combinations of techniques
in his diagnosis. The patient need not
tell him anything. He reads pulses by
placing the pointer, middle finger and ring finger of one hand on the wrist of
the person, the same spot where physicians take the pulse. With his other hand, he places his thumb
between the person’s thumb and pointer, and his pointer on the underside. There are many different kinds of beats, some
blunt, some sharp, some weak. Each type
has implications. He has been studying
pulses for more than ten years but he admits tht he still has a lot to learn.
Another technique boy uses is
pressing nerve points, which is based on the principles of reflexology and
acupressure. “When you press specific
nerve points connected to a weak or sick organ, there is shooting pain.”
From observing heat change of the
body, Boy is able to determine the parts
which need treatment. He passes his hand
from the head to other parts. Ideally,
the temperature that he feels emanating from the person should be the same. If a part is hotter (mas mainit), it is indicative that the ailment/disease is active,
like infections. If the part is colder (mas malamig) than other parts, it
implies slow metabolism, lack of energy.
According to boy, his techniques are
confirmatory. First, he uses one
technique like pulse beats. He then
confirms his diagnosis with scanning for thermal variations and then pressing
nerve points. “Natural forms of
diagnosis are more accurate than machines.
On-coming diseases can be spotted; machines cannot.” Thus, a person can
take precautionary measures to prevent the disease.
Generally, Boy resorts to hilot and herbs in treating
patients. Most often, he gives advice on
the right foods to take, the right combinations, and traces with the patient
the possible roots of such ailments, whether it’s purely physical, or due to
emotional or spiritual problems. He also
uses oracion for those who are possessed by spirit/s. The oracion also enable him to heal even
without touching the part of the patient’s body. He illustrates: “Suppose you have a sprain, I will recite the
oracion, and it will heal. Or I will
write the oracion on the sprained part.
It has the same effect.”
Does the patient have to have faith
in order to be healed? Boy prefers the
word trust. “This is rhetorics,”
he says, “but when you say faith, there is religious overtone. The moment I say trust, it is simply letting
go. You trust the whole.” To him, trust has a deeper meaning. He
bewails the fact that healers are lumped together as faith healers. “Basta
hindi nag-aral sa eskuwela, faith healer ang tawag.” The perception is that you have to believe
first, to have faith.
Then too, there are persons who give
healers a bad name. “Natuto lang ng ilang oracion, they claim
to be healers.” Knowing oracion and being able to heal can be an
ego trip. That is why preparation,
spiritual preparation is important. Oracion and its uses are not given
unless the teacher-healer thinks that the student is prepared; the folly of the
student becomes the responsibility of the teacher.
Boy emphasizes that once you use the
oracion, you are in debt to the
spirit/entity you called upon. The
spirit/s have to be “fed” with daily prayers.
“Dapat busugin sa dasal, babatiin.” If not?
Then there are repercussions. The
oracion that is directed to the
spirit may not work anymore, or the supplicant might get sick. “so,” Boy explains, “with the oracion you
have power, but in a way, the spirit have power over you. You have utang-na-loob.”
Boy says he is selective in using oracion
because there are time when the patient has to go through the process of
natural healing for his/her own spiritual good.
Boy is president of the Association
of Health Aid Givers (ATHAG).